Thanks cat and T2, I guess my next step is to really understand that I can't trust anything W says so I need to protect my D's and myself and lawyer up. Hate to do that but now that I know going to L was more important than my D's once in a lifetime event that has been planned for a year, she knew the day and time but dumped it for something she could have done any time. My guess is her dad being here and going with her was why she chose the day. Once again, her dad gets involved and everything but her leaving goes out the window.
I know he has been pushing her to go and she let him call the tune once again! The bad thing is since she went she's been in a better mood than she has in months. All nice (overly so) and wanting to interact with me when all I want to do is be as far from her as possible! Just goes to show she will want exactly the opposite of what she precives I want from her.
I also now have it made extremely clear that I can't trust a word she says and can't count on her to keep a single promise. Have to go!
