It's good you're communicating here. She's trying to enrage you, so she can feel better about herself. Don't give her any thing to justify that she's doing the correct thing for herself and family. Now, do you feel better? No. And you won't until you change your own behaviors and life. Get busy on yourself and place her in the low priority (except w/kids in healthy way/No bad exposure w/OM) That stupid FB. I was told lawyers love to use it in cases against each other.