Thanks for all your responses, I do hope that is the case. Today would have been our 11th wedding anniversary so it's a cr@ppy feeling but I have been in a pretty good mood most of the day. Going out with my girlfriend tonight to see a band and have a drink. My mom was telling me that it does get easier after the first wedding anniversary after a divorce passes but that you really never forget the date, so each year I'll think about it, but these firsts are the hardest. I'm going to list my goals and blessings in my journal later just to reinforce positive thinking. Sitting around being depressed is not going to change anything or help me so I'll simply keep on living have a great weekend everyone. I see yard work in my future!
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs