So. It appears that his commercial property deal may fall out, but he is still going ahead to apply for his line if credit. He says because I may need the money to buy a house or some other investment may come up and he wants the opportunity to be ready/available.

Why did he bother to say to help me? (Hook?) Ugh!!! I didn't bother to respond with more than an "oh ya" position and comment. This is unlike me to not pursue the option of joint home ownership or to enquire about his intention. Blahhhhh

My friend told me this today: We judge ourselves by our Intentions not by our actions. But we judge others by their actions not their intentions.

I am constantly giving him credit for his intentions. He never has to prove his actions!! My mistake!!!


M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)