H gave me the pictures as my gift on Mother's Day. I felt like I was important to my H and he had done something special to make me happy. And then he did the same thing for the OW (although he claims it was not for Mother's Day). It also hurt more, because this was in my role as the mother of his kids and not just his wife/former best friend.

In addition to that pain, he did not really understand why I was hurt. He said that it was no big deal to him when he took the pictures and did not even think that maybe it would hurt me and/or take steps to avoid hurting me.