The comfort level between W and I seems to continue to increase.

A few nights ago W told me she was going to see the OW! shocked

I quickly thought… wait a minute, I don’t have any OW. Maybe this was her BFF’s BF’s OW she’s referring to? So I asked her “Who’s the OW?”

She replies, “IDK, some women who find out their man is cheating on them, so they band together and gang up on him to teach him a lesson.” “Remember, I said some of the girls from work and I were going to a movie this week?”

Oh… The Other Woman! “Great”, I say, “Don’t get sick on the popcorn!”

When W came home from the movie, she gave me a complete update. She enjoyed it, but confessed she would have preferred to see Hotel Budapest, but got out voted by the other girls.

So I decided to ask W out to see Budapest this weekend and she accepted. Neither W nor I are big movie goers or watchers. My plan is to sneak in some hand holding and snuggling moves on her. cool Advice from the ladies regarding this is more than welcome! Wish me luck!

I had a big load of mulch dumped in our driveway. Weeding the garden beds and distributing the mulch will be W and my team project for the next few days.

I’ve been reading “Getting the Love You Want” by Harville Hendrix. Very interesting information on how our specific love needs developed, why we choose our partners, how and why we end up in a "power struggle" and how to build and maintain a loving relationship. Great read.


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl