Thanks Thornton, I can tell you when this started I didn't do as well as you already are. I could not maintain no contact, I would always make up a legit "reason" to contact her. I learned after a couple months and went dark. She never came around, and you'll have no control over whether your strategy works or not.
There is one thing we know though, and that begging, pleading and crying will not work and will only push her faster and further away.
While I'm not necessarily a marriage saving success story, I am a rediscovered my self-worth story.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14