Yes,I have read several books on affairs...I fit alot of the criteria.I had a "life crises event"(my son) my H and didn't communicate well and stopped doing things together..I wish I would have seen the signs back then! I haven't posted in awhile because my H has been here everynight!(cuts into my computer time!) we have ML twice..What is happening here?? He tells me he wants a D last week and now he is relaxed.. Last night he did say he wants us to talk this week so I think he is moving forward with his plans.. I had a phone consul with Vernetta..She said he is like a bungee cord..He will get close to me then pull back for a few days..
