Thanks sandi2. The one thing I have not done yet is to call W. Thinking of doing so before I call MIL.

I thought initiating contact via text and email would be a lighter approach before calling. However, these in the recent past led to miscommunication about was implied or not.

M:36 W:34
T:9,M:4
Me,WAH:7/2011
My apology:12/2012
Her,WAW:01/2013
ILYBINILWY:4/2013
W's EA:5/2013
Sep:9/2013
2nd EA signs:03/2014