I got a DU I 15 years ago ,I had previously gotten one when we were dating. I had an EA about 14 years ago, actually it was a more one sided crush on my part. The OW was never interested in being anything other than my bartender. About this same time I quit a bad job and had a series of worse ones while I went back to school. Sometimes she wants to do things and I resist. These things are generally things that at the time I thought we couldn't afford. I drank too much at times. I pressured her to have sex more than 3 times a year which was where it was at for 3 or 4 years after S was born. When she would get mean or do something spiteful I would do the same to her. I wasn't the best listener and I'm kinda sloppy and spend money unwisely , not great deals of money.20 here and there and lose receipts. I snore. I start things that take a while to finish. I make light of things that I don't think are a big deal. Last year I told them I was going to quit taking them camping because they were never happy and it was so much work for me that I never got to fish or whatever. I have worked graveyards or splits for the last 20 years. There is a brief list of my worst offenses as I recall ,I'm sure that hers is longer and different but how do I know if she never talks?
Me 49 stunned and lost W 47 ,stunning and my world S 15,better than anyone could ask for T 29 yrs ,M 18. B 4-3-2014 move on separately.4-18-2014- "doesn't want to be M" 5-8-14 " I'm filing for divorce"
