I did find out recently that I had an ovarian cyst which was a reason why sex was very painful for me.
Yes, H has alot of pride issues...He actually has told me that it hurts his pride that he lost his job, ect. I also know it is very hard for men to get over the thought of their W having an A. It kills there ego.
At the beginning of our S he would come to me with this ridiculous comments that I knew were coming from OW. She was feeing his ego and telling him that she couldnt believe I was not there for him ect. You know how these woman are. Anything to get their way. My H has always been a follower and this case is not any different.
I used to blame myself for his sex ad but I have since forgiven myself. I know it is not my fault.
I know the pain you feel when you feel like you are responsible for what is happening. I am starting to get over that but it will take quite awhile.
Ill keep checking in on your thread since or sitch are so similiar. I hope everything is going ok with you
