The depression causes one to feel very tired, also. I know it is difficult for you and the distance seems to be a large stumbling block. Is there another program or a different approach you believe would work better than DB?
As for the career move, I think you have to make the decision based on what is good for you. Your W removed herself, therefore you need to move forward as if she was no longer a part of it. It sounds cold, even writing those words. I know you are grieving and I wish I could give you the hope you want.
I think you should tell your MIL what's going on. Not with any purpose in mind other than informing her. I feel she has a right to know. I would want to know if it were my daughter and SIL.
I hope you continue to post to us. You need support, and if you post often, you will get more responses.
((hugs))
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
