W admitted that she went to lawyer today. I reminded her that she said she wasn't going to do that 2 weeks ago, no comment. Told her at the same time she said that she was in no hurry and just want separation not D. She said she's still not in hurry but that she was just asking questions and get this.... This way she can answer my questions now! I told her I have no questions except why you lied to me. Love how she turned this around as her going not for her but for me! Classic! Than she says what she has said every time I have tried to talk to her for the last 3 years "I don't want to talk about this now I'm tired and want to sleep". I could try and talk to her at 4:00 in the afternoon and she would say the same thing! So, I laughed at that gem and told her at least I now know why her dad came down because it sure wasnt for my D and that it really bugs me that she couldn't even wait for the kids to get done school and went to bed.
So, as of now she is still trying to tell me what she wants me to do tomorrow since, once again, I am taking off work to take care of my D and get her to her grad, swim party after and late evening party just for 8th graders while my W refuses to take any time since she blew her time at lawyers. I'm done with her now folks. She is dead to me. No more giving her space and support because I vowed "for better or worse" and I never knew how bad worse could get until now.
When this started she said she knows she could always count on me loving her and taking care of her no matter what happened. She could gain 200 lbs or be disfigured in an accident and need lots of care and I would take care of her. It was what she loved most about me. Well, she can scratch that. I don't see myself crossing the street to urinate in her mouth if her teeth were on fire. I
