See you guys confuse me too. You say to make changes, so 180s. And when I do you question whether it's for me or just to get her to notice. The answer is both , if it helps me to be happier and healthier in all of my other relationships then it has been a lifelong task to be a good human , other wise if it's things like picking up my shoes, throwing the old newspaper out or making the bed,a and other things i neglected over time, well that's for her. These are things that aren't too onerous ,common courtesy really and now are 180 behaviors. Is that wrong?
Me 49 stunned and lost W 47 ,stunning and my world S 15,better than anyone could ask for T 29 yrs ,M 18. B 4-3-2014 move on separately.4-18-2014- "doesn't want to be M" 5-8-14 " I'm filing for divorce"
