Luvcats, Thank you. I appreciate your insight. I can see how my W sucked in because he knows her very well. So, that's probably why they talk so much and so often. I'm sure he is validating all of her feelings about the issues we were having. That's the thing that sucks becuase I don't know my W right now. She acting totally different from the person that I've been with for 9 years. DId you also act different during the time you were with your ex? Even our mutual friends say that she is totally acting out of character. I don't get it?
I do really appreciate the insight!
I hope that I and others here can help you with your sitch.