Got home and wife refuses to talk about why she left D's event so suddenly. Says she'll explain later. Then comes to me and says she is going to go visit her dad out of state and take my D with her. (all smiles and sunny). I tell her no she's not because D doesn't want to go. She asks me how I know that and I tell her that she came to me and asked me to please get her to stop asking her to go and she asked her in front of me! (God's honest truth, I didn't know she was wanting her to go until my D told me). W says she only asked her once (I was in the room when she asked her 3 different times in last 2 days!) and I am influencing her against him (again, not true, I really don't need to as my D doesn't need me to).
W spends 30 min. in D's room trying to talk her into going and my poor D is crying and saying no! I try to join them when I hear them crying and W won't let me join saying it's "girl talk". They come out and W calls her father and says my D won't be going to dinner with them tonight but will tomorrow. Leave without telling me about trip to lawyer. Can't wait to hear why she went after telling me she wasn't going to go and during the one event that my D most wanted her to attend for her graduation.
At least I no longer will have trouble detaching from her. I doubt I'll want to be in the same room with her for any amount of time let alone care what she says or does. At this point I really don't like her very much and see her as a lying weak, valueless person who is so easily swayed by what her daddy thinks she will do whatever he says is best. I think it's time I get a lawyer myself and here I hadn't because she swore she hadn't and wasn't going to, I guess I really truly can't believe a word she says!
