4th Down And Getting A Little Anxious

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I think it's GREAT you don't think about her, it's a waste of energy and only causes pain to you and sometimes your imagination causes more damage to your positive attitude if you waste a second wondering about it. Personally I try not to think about it and pretend it doesn't exist, I don't know for sure that it does, so any time I waste on it seems stupid to me - I've definitely wasted enough time thinking about it and it is never anything good or helpful to my sitch ya know? I think you are incredibly well adjusted and that is fantastic. You seem to know who you are and have a good sense of self already .Not letting some OW take any of your "light". I love reading your posts because you're always very upbeat and with the cr*p we all go through - it is just a breath of fresh air. I second what Bklynmom says - good for you! having confidence is big hurdle for some of us lbs's - you have a lot of strength, I feel it is admirable how you're handling everything.