I have a feeling you will not allow yourself to be a bitter shrew you've been at this a year, you appear to be blossoming. We all have our moments of bitterness, I know I do. Totally normal right! You'll work through it and tomorrow will be a better day. Focus on the positives like you listed - you've definitely got some great things going on in your life.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs