I can't remember if I relate this in my story but I first became aware of trouble back in Sept03. W had invited a couple of women from work to Disney while we were there and she also invited OM and his son since they had never been. Well, the two ladies never showed and OM stuck around all day - until after midnight. That's when I got nervous.
It was after that that I noticed things weren't right. She was becoming more and more distant. Just a few months earlier she was all over me telling me that she was feeling needy and needed some reassurance. I responded willingly and told her constantly that I loved her.
My W is bringing OM around my two sons already and I think that it is too soon. She doesn't care about anyone but herself right now. I'm going to contact a lawyer to make sure that I'm protected and I'm thinking about moving back into the house and telling her she can either stay or she can take over the apt. I've allowed her to manipulate me for the past five months and allowed her to make me feel like it was all my fault. It's time for her to be knocked out of her comfort zone. I don't think I have any choice.
For the record, I still love my wife. I just don't know who this woman is that is living in her body right now. Thanks for the insight. She may be in LaLa Land but it's time for her to wake up.
