New therapist and moving on......

[twinmom]

So I was using our co-parenting therapist as my ic too.... bad choice, she told me Monday I should be thankful H wasnt taking every penny and not paying the bills. Ummmmm "thankful"??
New ic suggested some very firm boundaries and really put me in a good frame of mind Wednesday. H sent a text Wednesday night saying he would be here just before 7 this morning to get twins. I sent back saying ok, I also have the rest of your stuff (he left some clothes still hanging in the closet and other stuff) packed up for you. They're are also a few boxes of your stuff in the basement and I will carry them up tomorrow or Friday and have them in the garage ready for you Saturday morning"......
He replied back for me to just show him which boxes to which I replied no, it's ok I will have them ready. When he replied he didn't want me carrying up from the basement I just didn't reply.

I packed up EVERYTHING of his, even included all the mother's day/birthday/Christmas cards he has given me and the willow tree figures his brother gave us......

H doesn't say hi/bye to me or my older boys and it really bothers them so I am sending an email today that will give him the option of picking up the twins Thursday mornings AFTER I take the boys to school or his mom coming inside to get them (she is so nice to my kids even texts my oldest randomly to see how is day is). I will not allow him to upset my kids because he is rude. This will mean the older boys will only see H on Sunday evenings when he brings the twins home.