Anything is possible. This DBing has helped me personally grow. I have a WAH and I've rededicated myself to personal growth and God. My first marriage was 9 yrs. and bad. I rebelled against H and God (he thought he was my god) and was the WAW with three boys. After 21 years I remarried and after 6 mths. My new husband (who was my mate for four years) did the WAH from me. Both husbands had EA and PA (I'm sure this one is.) He refuses any C and has a violent temper (which I discovered as soon as we said I do) Talking about rededicating and revising my life. I grew a lot after my first divorce. We had MC for 2 years while (not knowing) he had EA & PA with secretary for 1.5 years. Anyway, we were church goers and what a mess. I became the WAW and was the rebellious child of God, so to speak. This mess I'm in now, brought me back to a closer relationship with God and now I can't even DB with this H, (he filed and should be over in a few months) but learn from all my mistakes. WAW can figure things out. Quite frankly it's too late for my 1st marriage (he remarried a woman that well they have similar issues). You never know how long it'll take, but with lots of reading, praying, and dedication things can turn around.
