I have a question for both PamelaC and Luvcats. My W is currently involved with OM but has not admited to it and all I know is what i have found by snooping. It appears that she is "in love" although my C says that she is infatuated. My question is, should I push her to admit the affair to me? Was your A a one night stand type or was it more like my W?
It hurts me deeply to think of my W with OM since we were the first for both of us. We started dating in high school and have never been with anyone else. I love my W still very much and would love to have the opportunity to work things out. It just doesn't seem like a possibility right now. Any advice?