I am having an issue right now with the fact that my W says she wants to keep costs low and out of court but when I ask her what her thinking on her wants and such are she gets very evasive and wants her L to do all the work.
I understand it is her right to do this but it goes against what she says is her desires to keep costs down.
Before I retained my own L I spoke with her L to see if we could just use him(I was never planning on this but my W asked me to call him if I had any questions because she doesn't understand the whole thing). I assume she does understand but is unwilling to explain it to me.
Both her L and my L said negotiating is fine if we agree to it so I am a little perplexed at my W unwillingness to do this because the quicker this gets done the faster the D could happen. Correct?
The only reason I can think of for her not wanting to cooperate so much is we have an alimony/spousal support hearing in 6 weeks and maybe she waiting to see that outcome.
All the sudden the job she had that was paying her under the table has now hired her and put her on the payroll but she is only kicking in about 10% towards bills vs the 50% from a month ago so I guess she listening to advice from her L or from other people who influence her life now days.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
