Keep up the good work. None of us want to burst the bubble but it seems he's feeling guilt and wants to justify his behavior and being nice to you, friendly, buddies, etc. That's all swell, but you need him to be your H and support you, especially being a new mommy. Wow, girl. Hang in there. You remind me of my first marriage. I didn't totally know it at the time, but my ex was having an PA & EA when I was preganant and afterwards I found out when my little guy was 1 yr. I had two little guys 3 & 5. I hope you don't get the shockers, but be prepared, and keep DBing.