I know Wonka, that's the problem. I try to just stay in my own sandbox but this time my W (loudly) asked for my intervention. When my response wasnt forceful enough, she spewed on me. Not sure what to do when asked to get involved. I know my W needs to deal on her own terms with my D and if she hasn't started yelling for me to do something I just would have stayed out of it.
I don't think just ignoring her was the right way to go. Should I have just told her to handle it herself and stay out of it? Seriously, not sure which way to go in a stich like this.