I want to know if anyone else is in the situation I am..I was the one who had the affair. Now I am hoping to save my marriage! When my H first found out about my affair he wanted a divorce..then as we talked more he decided to reconcile..Well after 2 months now he is saying he wants a divorce again. I am trying to hang in there but he is pretty angry and hurt. Sometimes I don't think he can ever get over it and move on. I definitely am sorry for what I have done and have shown alot of remorse!! When our son was 2 we found out he was disabled. This was extremely devastating for me! I spent all my time going to Drs. ,therapists etc..He worked all the time. We grew apart and never did things as a family. I asked him to go to counseling several times and unfortunately I made some very bad decisions to get my needs met. When he discovered my affair he was shocked and said he really did love me. Now that we have reconnected and seen where our faults were I am shattered he wants a divorce .I felt like we were really starting over..
