I think being the best you and genuinely listening to your h when he talks are a good start. When you see him, validate his feelings and just enjoy your life. Laugh. Be in the moment.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer