H called me at work yesterday. Told me his buddy was in town, and he wanted to go see him at his hotel. Said he'd "be back home before [our daughter] went to bed." He sent me a text on his way back asking if I'd like something for dinner. I had other arrangements that evening, and nothing defrosted so said yes.
He brought home dinner, and sat at my new (to me) kitchen table and talked about his day and his friends. I just listened. When he asked about my day, I shared and he told me he wished I'd just tell certain people to shove it (I work with a lot of men, am still breastfeeding and one of them is calling my boss every time I go to pump and telling her he can't find me...but he has my cell phone number and doesn't try texting. He knows where I am but I digress..)
I told him it wasn't worth it, then mentioned I had to go run an errand and would be back in a few. Ran an errand, came back and he wanted to watch a movie with me again. We watched a movie, but before it was over, I was tired as hell and went to bed.
He woke up and got the baby at 2AM while I made her bottle. He fed her and I went back to bed. I got up this AM and got her things ready for the neighbor, and got ready for work. He left at the same time I did this AM, but stayed to talk to the neighbor about the kiddo. On the way out, he also asked me if he had to pay his student loans (all are past due) in cash or if he could use a credit card (he's admittedly stupid when it comes to finances.)
This morning, he sent me a text after I had already driven in to work and said he hoped I didn't go a certain freeway and took the back way, because the major freeway was a traffic nightmare. I told him no, I was already at work but thanks for the thought to give me the heads up.
I also mentioned to him that his other student loan account had e-mailed me (I had set it up to where it went to me instead of him as I paid all bills) to be nice. He thanks me and said he'd get it setup.
Still not sure if he's just being nice to avoid an argument, if he wants something, if he's still planning on moving out; or if he's really being sincere and wants to get along to try to salvage things. It's mind reading, and driving me bonkers whenever I DO think about it. It's at those times I try to find something else to do. Today, I think I'm going to start playing a super hard game of soduku whenever those thoughts creep in to my head.
GAL-ing this week:
Bought 2 tons (yes, tons) of drystack limestone to go around flowerbeds. I'm still not sure why I thought I needed 2 tons, but I also forgot to get base material for it. Need to do that today.
Tonight: going to look at/buy leftover flagstone from some people. Bought more last night and this should be enough to complete my patio out back.
Also tonight: divorce care from 630-830. I may be a little late from flagstone purchasing, but I'm going to try and hustle.
Tomorrow: Military friend coming over to help me stack rocks around beds. Hope to get the majority of it done.
Sat AM: he has the baby allllllll weekend so will get to see what it's like to be a big boy and take care of her 24/7. Sat AM, two other military buddies are showing up at 9AM to go help me move 1.25 tons of flagstone I purchased yesterday. I still have to finish lining the beds (and the FREAKING BACKSPLASH) before moving sprinkler system around so that bobcat guy can come in and prep dirt for patio.
Sat PM: horse people. They have a coyote problem, so I'm going to go over and we are going to call in some coyotes to get rid of them.
FOLD LAUNDRY
Sun AM: Might go to fav breakfast place. Might invite H. Might not. Just depends on how the weekend goes.
Sun AM after breakfast: I WILL get the backsplash finished.
Sun afternoon - pick up dog poop, mow yard. Finish whatever rock stuff around flowerbeds needs finished.
Sun late afternoon - start cleaning up house. At this point it should be a disaster from being neglected since...tonight.
Sun PM: if he's about to go nuts from watching kidlet, take her on a ride in her new bike trailer. I took her yesterday for the first time and she laughed and laughed the entire ride.
I think that should fully occupy the majority of my time this weekend.
Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?
