Birthday's are a big deal.....But the mediation is a bigger deal IMHO. If Australia is like here....setting up mediation is not the easiest task in the world and you take an appointment when you can, not when you want.
In your case, the mediation with the Bio dad could mean a significant change in D4's life....Whether through support payments, visits, etc. That is a big deal for her life....not just a few hours in one day.
Rethink the whole mediation thing....not from your perspective, but what it can mean to D4?
