Ye, I don't think it has been too terribly long of a period for NC with her- especially since you moved across the country. I know it seems like an eternity. I would think (mind reading) she figures you moved to get away from everything, including her. I'm not surprised she hasn't contacted.

If you want to test the waters, I would wait. Maybe getting away from her will speed up your detachment and you won't want to speak to her so soon. Maybe wait a week or so... Just a thought.

Enjoy your time over there!!! smile


Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5