LiveNow, I can understand how you feel. I will be 2 years for me in another month and there have not been much communication with H. He doesn’t file, so I’m thinking that I need to do it myself just to get over it. I also have very little hope that he would eventually come around.
I have been taking care of the things in the house just fine so far. You can do it too. If you cannot cut the loan, hire somebody to do it. I’ve been cutting my loan sometimes when my son cannot come over to do it.

I wish we could get some rain here. It is very dry and hot and the brush fires are burning all around.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state