Thanks again Thornton. This is such a rough ride. Been over 2 years now with a 7 month reconciliation mixed in!!

I view her more as a 4 year old haha. I see similarities between her and my son.

Seriously though, I'm really struggling with finding a way to "be" around her, y'know, how do I act around her? I'm trying all sorts of different approaches and I'm failing. Right now I'm letting her go to figure her sh*t out with minimal help from me while I go on and live my life. I'm sort of seeing this girl but her situation is extremely complicated. She has 1 maybe 2 years left to live. Crazy!!!

Me-35 Com law-28
S-3
T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu
1st bu- 2/2012
Rec-4/2013
2nd bu-10/2013
IC-2 yrs(anger issues)
MC- 5 mnths-fail
OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14
New OM ~10/4/14