She also told me she felt like I was being rude to her and forcing her out... even though a few weeks ago when she first brought up looking for a rental place to live - she told me she wanted to leave as it would be cheaper to rent elsewhere than to continue paying her share of our household bills, and not because I was 'driving her out' (this was an important fact for me to clarify at the time).

She told me she felt like a prisoner here and that I had made it 'unlivable' for her here because I played the TV 'too loud' or 'blasted my music' -- I told her that she made me feel the same way when she shut me out of the office (where both of our computers are located) or went online to voice chat with OM.

Not sure this has helped anything, though I do hope by being firm and authoritative, she'll gain back some respect for me.

-Pluto

H: 29 W: 27
No Kids

Together: 12/04 (9 years)
Living: 02/09 (5 years)
Married: 06/13 (11 months)
ILYBNILWY: 01/14
Separate Bedrooms: 01/14
Discovered Affair: 02/14 (On-going)
W Moved Out: 06/14