I've been reading some of your threads. I'm new here, but not that new to the separation to divorce road, and I have to say I think a woman worthy of you is going to find you soon. There are some of us out here who treasure people with "battle scars" - those who face their fears and weaknesses and work through them to get stronger. It's taken me almost eight years to realize no matter how much I wanted my soon-to-be ex husband to be that kind of person, he is not. And he has no interest in becoming that kind of person. So even though I still see a sliver of potential in him, in our marriage, I'm going to rest awhile and restore some of the energy I spent worrying about and taking care of him. And after that, I'll be ready to find a guy like you. You're doing great. You're exactly where you need to be. I'm cheering for you!
