Oh is he the one who wants to be flexible by not defining childcare time? Make it a win win for him. How flexible can he really be if he has no idea if you're going to need him from one weekend to the next? He has way more flexibility to enjoy his life if he knows basically when he's "on" and when he's "off" duty. Maybe that will work.


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
__
Happiness is a warm puppy.