I think we're just at stage 2 of married life, and I did change over the past year. I had to cope with having a wife that was living 3 hours from me before we moved to the west coast. I turned to gaming. I see it as a problem and I have significantly cut back and stopped playing the game I had been. And like I've said earlier, I am making more positive changes towards cleaning the house (5LL) and I was trying to work on quality time (5LL) however the rules contradict
I'm following Sandi's rules right now and I am getting out of the house more and I have bought a bicycle which keeps me occupied.
I knew about her illness but it wasn't present in the honey moon stage (haha, go figure).
I really do appreciate the positive responses, I had a feeling I would've been told otherwise. I'm half way through DR and it is awesome advice. I love how easy it is to read.
