If you put your foot down and your W leaves the house, are you ready for that?
She's already told me a few times that she intends on moving out - and most recently told me she would be doing so in June.
To that end, I don't have much to lose. I'm reaching a point where it would almost be a relief in some ways. I'm all for re-establishing some boundaries, but I'd love some insight into how to do so. This is where I need Starsky and sandi to hit me with a 2x4 or five, I think.
I still want to work things out, but she needs to feel the ramifications and consequences of her actions - which might have to include renting a room somewhere on her own and dealing with that.
I've already decided that once she moves out, I'm changing the locks and going full blown NC - we're pretty 'dim' right now as it is, barely speaking despite living in the same house.
-Pluto
H: 29 W: 27 No Kids
Together: 12/04 (9 years) Living: 02/09 (5 years) Married: 06/13 (11 months) ILYBNILWY: 01/14 Separate Bedrooms: 01/14 Discovered Affair: 02/14 (On-going) W Moved Out: 06/14