Originally Posted By: 2BHappy

If you put your foot down and your W leaves the house, are you ready for that?


She's already told me a few times that she intends on moving out - and most recently told me she would be doing so in June.

To that end, I don't have much to lose. I'm reaching a point where it would almost be a relief in some ways. I'm all for re-establishing some boundaries, but I'd love some insight into how to do so. This is where I need Starsky and sandi to hit me with a 2x4 or five, I think.

I still want to work things out, but she needs to feel the ramifications and consequences of her actions - which might have to include renting a room somewhere on her own and dealing with that.

I've already decided that once she moves out, I'm changing the locks and going full blown NC - we're pretty 'dim' right now as it is, barely speaking despite living in the same house.


-Pluto

H: 29 W: 27
No Kids

Together: 12/04 (9 years)
Living: 02/09 (5 years)
Married: 06/13 (11 months)
ILYBNILWY: 01/14
Separate Bedrooms: 01/14
Discovered Affair: 02/14 (On-going)
W Moved Out: 06/14