Thanks, again, Owl. I believe he didn't realize what he was doing in the moment, but I think more he's dealing with the fallout of his actions over the last few years right now (he's basically said this). He's currently reconnecting with his D18. Hopefully he finds a way to apologize to her and patch the damage there. IF he comes back to our M, it will be after that R is on the mend. I'm rooting for him!
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5