I've kind of calmed down and am doing better. Still have remained pretty dark for the most part. Still not budging on the vacation time she is asking for and it has not come up since she mentioned going back to court to change the divorce agreement. Her mom called me...I didn't answer. She left a message wanting to talk to me about getting more time for the visit. I didn't call her back. I don't know...that seems kind of inappropriate, even though her mom and I have had a pretty decent relationship.