Job, not understanding your question. My mediation is complete.. now I need to get it legalized. The mediator report is a general statement suggesting to seek ILA... thats not where I am at now.

letting go, detaching, dropping the rope, letting God.... I AM IN!!!

Yes, give up trying to control/manipulate the situation... I give UP!!!

Trying to turn the focus back on me & my DD, MY LIFE!!!

Good question ~~~ If "yet" never comes.... will look at that!!

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)