Originally Posted By: owl777
Unfortunately, perhaps they were this way and we just didn't accept or see them for what they are. Give yourself some time and you may see that your spouse has always been this way and you just didn't see it.
That's funny you say this, because I have been wondering the same thing.

Originally Posted By: owl777
The constant contact is that she for whatever reason wants to be in the know. Has she always been this way? Or are you just seeing this for the first time?
Interesting point. Yes, She has always been this way. I guess I thought things would be different once we were separated, but I guess not.

I still would like to speak with her Face to Face. We seem to communicate better when face to face, rather than over the phone or the dreaded text msg. You see, Ever since she dropped the bomb, we've had little to no communication. Even when we do talk its mainly about the kids.


Me: 39 W: 33
M: 9 years
T: 10 years
S7 S10
BD 10/19/13
W Filed 11/25/13
EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA)
WAW moved out 3/15/14