someone misinterpreted here...... what I am trying to say, is that I KNOW he wants a relationship...just not now!! I get that! I think he said that, to keep HIS option open.
I am not using my self-value as a tactic to "get him"... I am accepting my self-value and appreciating myself!! To not be a doormat.
My pulling back is to SAVE me! Getting out of his way, his confusion, etc.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
