I don't know, guys... I have been reading a lot and I see many more divorces than success stories. Still, I have to move forward either way, so if no contact could help him refocus and understand what he is missing, why not try? I guess I just don't see how effective it could be for people who have already been physically separated for a long time. He's had plenty of time to see how life without me is, and he said he likes it. I'm also worried that my crying/pleading really pushed him away, but there's nothing I can do about it now. Would it be better if I changed my tune about the divorce process? Last week I said I did not want a divorce, so if he does, he has to do all the work of drawing up the papers (we're both lawyers so we were going to do it without outside help). Should I offer to do some research and paperwork if he does contact me about it? I really don't want to move that process along, though, it would be a good way for me to show I am accepting and giving him what he wants.
