I hear ya GB - my exH started an exciting new job last summer and I too was happy and excited for him but that is where all this started, EA and who knows what else and I know he told her things about me that probably weren't true too but whatever, they're all fvckers, unfortunately we still care about them and it still hurts. It is what it is, don't dwell on it and let it go. Hold your head up high, doesn't matter what any of them think, it's what YOU know. Inside you know that you did all you could and even this won't last forever - eventually the pain will subside, life will go on and new things will happen in our lives. Once in awhile it's hard not to think on the past - it just rears its ugly head but we have to let it go and just try and be in the present and distract ourselves with good things, positive things. Hang in there, this too shall pass!
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs