I lived with my X for four years post bomb. In separate rooms, leading separate lives. The first year and a half were hard. Because i resisted the process. Once i accepted it was what it was, whatever that was, it became much easier to function.
Waiting to live, waiting to change thoughts and behaviors, waiting for the what ifs, holds YOU back.
I have more but im on my phone right now.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
