Jacqui if you read about other sitch's you will find stories of couples in sitch's much more complex than yours that had a happy ending.
I recommend reading the success stories. NOTHING is impossible.
Educate yourself as best you can on DB so you can gain some clarity. That will help calm you down.
I certainly understand the panic you are feeling, I'm going through it myself. You also need to try to focus on yourself. This one is sooooo hard for me but it's something I've heard can work wonders for the LBS and in some cases make the walk away spouse think.
