Wife is Continuing Affair-When Do I Start LRT? II

[PeterV2]

Dev; one more thing. That day I locked her out of my computer. She started talking about our relationship. I told her to stop. That I don't want to talk about our relationship until her A is over and the OM is completely out of our lives. At first she said she's not having an A. I just looked at her with a dumbfounded look and a dropping jaw. Then she asked, what about as just friends. I said No Contact - Forever.
A week later she came to me and said her relationship was over. That the OM had too many issues. But she didn't want to go into details. I have my doubts. Time to put a transparency plan into place. But now she's talking about going on a week's vacation with me. I'm very skeptical because I've been lied to consistently for the past year. I would suggest trying that approach: no R talk until the A is over. <- That was great advice from Sandi2 - thank you Sandi.