it now seems she won't make any decision without consulting her counsellor. I asked her yet again about telling the boys now to give them time to adjust. She says she will speak to him ref this and come back to me. This is a girl who was never afraid of making decisions and now can't seem to make any. I barely recognise her now and I find it very sad that she has almost disappeared as a person from how she was. She looks thoroughly miserable, I just wish she would talk to me even though I don't expect her ever to come back, but just so that I can have a conversation with her to see how she truly is. But i guess that would do me no good anyway.
