Wife is Continuing Affair-When Do I Start LRT? II

[PeterV2]

Dev, I figured out my W was snooping on my computer, deleting stuff she didn't like and such. So last week I changed my password and every time I'm away from my computer I lock it. She was at my desk and asked what my new password was and I said I don't want her on my computer because there are a lot of personal things on there that she doesn't need to see. I said that I'm journaling and writing stuff that is for no one's eyes but mine. A lot of it is crap and some of it is not very nice but it's part of the processing I'm going through to heal and grow. So once I've gone through this stage I'll delete those journaling files and then she can have access again. Just not now. At first she was furious. Then she calmed down. Boundaries. Apparently the WAW does not like them. Be mysterious. Her curiosity is your ally.
Yeah I mess up once in a while too. Totally blow it. But we just have to get back on that horse and carry on. I know this is tough. Like MWD says, this is the hardest thing I've ever done in my life.