For H and I to get along and not argue or have a "discussion" for 2 weeks. I think this is doable.
For H to continue to keep chatting it up with me.
For H to stay in the home AS LONG AS the verbal and emotional abuse stop. If not, that's his decision.
For me to find better ways to express my anger.
Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?