Oh, some goals for the R:

For H and I to get along and not argue or have a "discussion" for 2 weeks. I think this is doable.

For H to continue to keep chatting it up with me.

For H to stay in the home AS LONG AS the verbal and emotional abuse stop. If not, that's his decision.

For me to find better ways to express my anger.


Me- 29 H - 36
T - 5y M - 2y
D - 11 months
BD#1 June 2013
BD#2 H files 10/28/13
Retrouvaille Nov 13
BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14
Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set
Supposedly he's moving out?